On
the way to taking my husband to work we had a great conversations on these
subjects – so let me share
So the debate is this: If you were
brought up in a denomination as the base of your upbringing and you turn of age
and turn from that religion that is a choice you make in life....God gave you
that choice to do so....I am not a religious person....I believe in God.....I
have studied the Bible with others.....but I have a belief that God is
everywhere and will hear me no matter where I am.....but I would never put
someone down for their beliefs. I can have a debate with them and maybe
adopt some things they believe in after the discussion....but if you make the
choice not to follow the religion you were brought up in then how do you blame
religion. It needs to fall into the choices you make in life.....what
people have observed is that maybe you need to look at life around you and know
that no human being should be called, "STUPID" - "UNEDUCATED"
- OR THINK YOU ARE BETTER THEN SOMEONE ELSE..... especially when you yourself
is in a relationship with someone that does that to you.....
Debate #2 is this: Does someone with a
paper saying they have a degree make you better then someone? To my
experience, and believe me I have had this thrown in my face before, people
with an education seems to throw that up in everyone’s face like it’s all
that. To me it’s what you do to further that education that makes you
something doesn’t it….and what you give back to the world in order to honor
that education….belittling someone in the name of that education makes you a
sad sad person…..my son has dreams but how he uses that beginning step is to
belittle everyone around him, especially his family….he doesn’t encourage he
puts you down throwing it up in your face…..he wants this he wants that but he
doesn’t say you know what I am going to do this and that and do it to the best
of my ability….and Arielle follows along with how Gary is better then the rest
of us because she has been brainwashed into believing it herself…..she doesn’t
think to highly of herself and her abilities but wants to defend a young man
and his abuse of his family….hell Gary has even put down her family and I
really doubt she defends them…he has no regard for the people that have
sacrificed so much to give them what they said they wanted as a stepping
stone…..to continue with their dreams….my son wants to go to Maine, he wants to
go to college to further his education….this is what comes out of his
mouth….but does he do it….no…all talk and no actions….so while he sits around
dreaming of things he tells Arielle how she can’t do this right or she isn’t
worth this….is that a reflection of himself…..
Debate #3 is this: Do you allow someone
to have so much control that you cut off any real family members in your life
and friends….but yet you allow that person to cheat on you and then basically
fuck you….and you are okay with that….do you allow someone to tell you who can
you speak with and so on and so on….I take some responsibility on that because
I saw what was going on and I didn’t do something about it sooner and I tried
so it’s time to go on and let it happen….called “had enough”…..I have been
taking it for years from him and felt so badly for you but once again it’s your
choice….so don’t try to belittle me in the process of making those choices….I
am a uneducated, no job holding bitch but I have a home and a man that loves me
always….and would never allow another human being to think they are better then
me because of what I have and have worked for I own what I have in life….you
don’t even own your own choices….so prove us wrong and get what you deserve in
life….and that’s a life of your own and not one revolved around mental
abuse….he is my son who I may have pride in for some things….but I think he is
a abuser and you are being abused….no woman should live with what you live
with….like my son say’s “he controls you, and he’s got it like that”
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