Hello Krystina
Well I put up my picture wall in my office in the house and I have the whole family up on the wall. Your mom and your Aunt Nikki and pictures of you and the rest of the family, I have pictures of your mom and Aunt Nikki when they were young and your grandmother Marie is up there to. Got to print some pictures of your family picture that includes Zoe and Chad also, since they are a part of your family they need to be included on the wall. And I am happy about that wall, because I have been waiting to get it back up.
I love pictures, I post a lot of pics on Facebook like everyone else but I have an awful lot of paper pics to. Haven't gotten them done in a while now. Used to take family pictures every year. I thought I would write because as usual when I look at my wall now I think of everyone and how everyone is doing and that includes the ones closest to you also. I am getting old and sentimental I guess. Your Uncle Patrick says that wall will remind me who is who when I get senile. Isn't he a funny joker, and he is going to be missed when he moves to North Carolina. I have many friends that read this blog and they are my friends that they sympathize with me on these letters to you. I found myself defending Chad with them recently and they were amazed. Well they looked at me like I grew a second head. He does have to defend your mommy and what and how she saw things in the past, but your dad basically finally admitted he was not a good person with your mom and they were to young to be together. Of course I have to say now that I should have never taken her in without speaking to your grandmother Marie first, but then lets take a look at this. Would you have been born? And you never being born would be a hole in my life. I may not have known what was missing if you weren't born but I don't see if I had a chance to go back and change things I would.
You are still that beautiful young child in my mind. I have seen pictures of you in between your mom and Chad and everybody blocking me from seeing pictures but I have seen the pictures and you are a beautiful young lady and I bet you are the best and smartest young lady. Well you are loved of curse and will always be loved by many.
I don't know if you know the world reads this. That whole big world out there is reading the letters I put up for a granddaughter. And if there is one grandmother suffering the same things that I am suffering then I am not alone in missing you. There are so many obstacles in the way, a lot of feelings that can not be resolved and peace made. I guess that is just one of those things, I am just very very heartbroken sometimes and sad. I wonder in my mind about things and I do get angry so very angry and want to lash out and be mean and then I have to think I put myself in this situation maybe for the right reasons in my mind but for the wrong reasons for others. Sometimes you can't win for lose.
I think the lesson learned here Krystina is that things can be forgiven at some point. It may take a little longer then most but sooner or later forgiveness is the best medicine for a person. If I was able to get pictures and calls and such I don't know if I would write you anymore on the internet and I personally think this shows you that you are thought about. So I enjoy putting letters up for you and to prove that you are never far from my mind.
Well I think I have put down what is on my mind this evening and I send my love to you and everyone around you. That's not believed but I don't care it's how I feel and I do try to put what I feel most of the time, good or bad. I recently saw a picture of your cousins father, Jonathon and your cousins and it was a beautiful picture. I look forward to seeing a picture of you and this half of the family one day. And it will be the center of family wall one day.
Love you always,
Your Gradmother
Wednesday, July 23, 2014
Friday, July 18, 2014
Titan Rey Tessinari
Dearest Titan
How adorable are you? You are getting so fat and you look very peaceful. You are a beautiful child and you have the best mommy and daddy. I am happy that you were gifted to them. And that I have the honor to be your grandmother. It's one of those things that I have been waiting for. I didn't know if I had room for you in my heart because of my own demons of losing one grandchild, but it seems the heart can love a lot for others and you weren't a dream after all but a reality and the love I have for you is boundless. Keep growing young child and always be the best as you bring out the best in everyone around you.
Love you always,
Grandma
How adorable are you? You are getting so fat and you look very peaceful. You are a beautiful child and you have the best mommy and daddy. I am happy that you were gifted to them. And that I have the honor to be your grandmother. It's one of those things that I have been waiting for. I didn't know if I had room for you in my heart because of my own demons of losing one grandchild, but it seems the heart can love a lot for others and you weren't a dream after all but a reality and the love I have for you is boundless. Keep growing young child and always be the best as you bring out the best in everyone around you.
Love you always,
Grandma
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| July 16, 2014 |
Sunday, July 6, 2014
Krystina Lucille Tessinari
Dearest Krystina,
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to have me as a grandmother? I think I would be an excellent grandmother. I would visit once a year and spoil you and your mother and step father would be upset, or shake their heads at me. God made a perfect choice when he gave me Titan and you. I will always regret the days, months and years without you Krystina. So many regrets in life sometimes. But I have many years to wait for you to. I looked up a couple of young people that I knew and that weren't doing to well in life and I have to tell you some of them have made it through. It's incredible how people can change sometimes, when you think a young person has no hope in life and does the wrong thing they seem to be able to dig their way out of their holes to be with their children and to be that role model they were meant to be. It's an amazing thing to see. When someone's actions disappoint you remember that things can change you just have to have hope and pray a lot.
I love you little girl or young lady as you may like to be called that about now. More then you will ever know. Reading these letters you may know that or say to yourself who is the crazy woman that's write to me on a blog. But it's out of love that I do, and will continue to do so. I would have stopped the blog Krystina if I had normal regular pictures and was allowed to have phone calls again to me. If I was invited to fly to meet you, but there isn't a chance of that in the future, but I will continue to write to you because this is the only way you will know someone out here wants you to know them.
When I write to you it's out of great love, frustration, and sadness. I know what people may think but at this very moment I just don't care what they think. It's just you and I when I write not the people that read this blog or the letters to you. It's like I want to say things to you and you alone but I put it out there for people to see and understand that "I love you". People aren't always forgiving in life, it's just on of those things. I never thought I would be forgiving to certain people in my life. But writing this blog helped me see it from other views also. It's strange to me how I wrote about people and they contacted me and once that contact was made and the talk was done I never wrote about them again.
Today was a wonderful day for me and your grandfather who has decided to join me in my diet and exercise routine to try and be in better health to live just a little bit longer for whatever our future may hold. So we are now thinking about the many things that we may miss if we don't get healthy and are more determined now to do it together. You are one of those factors and Titan is another one of those factors. We have to stay in the world in order for our world to maybe turn out a little brighter.
I received a phone call from your daddy yesterday and he said something that made me smile a lot. First he asked my advice about something, which was so nice. And second of all the next thing that I laughed about is he said, "you know why Arielle would leave me and who's fault it would be if she ever did leave me, but the one thing I can say is I have the two most amazing mom's for my children." I smiled so hard and have to say that even though it was never in dispute that your mommy is a great mommy, just for your daddy to say that and acknowledge that out loud was pure spectacular. Which he always said it about your mommy as a parent in passing but he never put it out there as a full pledge statement and acknowledgement. FINALLY!!!!! A young man has finally grown up and I smile at that.
As a parent you have to wonder sometimes if you made different choices would the world around you be different. What if I didn't allow your mom and dad to move in together when they asked me, would you exist? Probably not, so even if I said "no" and it changed the course of you being born would I know if I was missing something? So many questions for the universe, and I would like to think I would know if something was missing, I just don't know what or who it might be. Would Titan have been born because the steps I allowed may not have had Gary meeting Arielle or your mom to meet Chad and Zoe to being born. So many little steps that ended up like it is now.
So I have to believe and have faith that one day you will come around and meet me and your dad's family which includes your grandfather and uncle's and such. You may miss your great grandmother but I will give you the stories and the highlights, but I want you to know that we are waiting for that future meeting and the hugs and kisses that will be reigned upon you. Then you will run back home and say, who are those crazy people!!!
My little young lady granddaughter have pleasant dreams. Give a kiss to who matters to you now. And say to the stars "I love you whoever is out there".
Love always your grandmother
MyLinh
Do you ever wonder what it would be like to have me as a grandmother? I think I would be an excellent grandmother. I would visit once a year and spoil you and your mother and step father would be upset, or shake their heads at me. God made a perfect choice when he gave me Titan and you. I will always regret the days, months and years without you Krystina. So many regrets in life sometimes. But I have many years to wait for you to. I looked up a couple of young people that I knew and that weren't doing to well in life and I have to tell you some of them have made it through. It's incredible how people can change sometimes, when you think a young person has no hope in life and does the wrong thing they seem to be able to dig their way out of their holes to be with their children and to be that role model they were meant to be. It's an amazing thing to see. When someone's actions disappoint you remember that things can change you just have to have hope and pray a lot.
I love you little girl or young lady as you may like to be called that about now. More then you will ever know. Reading these letters you may know that or say to yourself who is the crazy woman that's write to me on a blog. But it's out of love that I do, and will continue to do so. I would have stopped the blog Krystina if I had normal regular pictures and was allowed to have phone calls again to me. If I was invited to fly to meet you, but there isn't a chance of that in the future, but I will continue to write to you because this is the only way you will know someone out here wants you to know them.
When I write to you it's out of great love, frustration, and sadness. I know what people may think but at this very moment I just don't care what they think. It's just you and I when I write not the people that read this blog or the letters to you. It's like I want to say things to you and you alone but I put it out there for people to see and understand that "I love you". People aren't always forgiving in life, it's just on of those things. I never thought I would be forgiving to certain people in my life. But writing this blog helped me see it from other views also. It's strange to me how I wrote about people and they contacted me and once that contact was made and the talk was done I never wrote about them again.
Today was a wonderful day for me and your grandfather who has decided to join me in my diet and exercise routine to try and be in better health to live just a little bit longer for whatever our future may hold. So we are now thinking about the many things that we may miss if we don't get healthy and are more determined now to do it together. You are one of those factors and Titan is another one of those factors. We have to stay in the world in order for our world to maybe turn out a little brighter.
I received a phone call from your daddy yesterday and he said something that made me smile a lot. First he asked my advice about something, which was so nice. And second of all the next thing that I laughed about is he said, "you know why Arielle would leave me and who's fault it would be if she ever did leave me, but the one thing I can say is I have the two most amazing mom's for my children." I smiled so hard and have to say that even though it was never in dispute that your mommy is a great mommy, just for your daddy to say that and acknowledge that out loud was pure spectacular. Which he always said it about your mommy as a parent in passing but he never put it out there as a full pledge statement and acknowledgement. FINALLY!!!!! A young man has finally grown up and I smile at that.
As a parent you have to wonder sometimes if you made different choices would the world around you be different. What if I didn't allow your mom and dad to move in together when they asked me, would you exist? Probably not, so even if I said "no" and it changed the course of you being born would I know if I was missing something? So many questions for the universe, and I would like to think I would know if something was missing, I just don't know what or who it might be. Would Titan have been born because the steps I allowed may not have had Gary meeting Arielle or your mom to meet Chad and Zoe to being born. So many little steps that ended up like it is now.
So I have to believe and have faith that one day you will come around and meet me and your dad's family which includes your grandfather and uncle's and such. You may miss your great grandmother but I will give you the stories and the highlights, but I want you to know that we are waiting for that future meeting and the hugs and kisses that will be reigned upon you. Then you will run back home and say, who are those crazy people!!!
My little young lady granddaughter have pleasant dreams. Give a kiss to who matters to you now. And say to the stars "I love you whoever is out there".
Love always your grandmother
MyLinh
Saturday, July 5, 2014
Gary Matthew Tessinari - 2014
Well everyone I want to blog about my trip to N. Carolina and visiting my son and
his wife, Arielle and my new grandson. What an amazing trip, and from what I saw
and heard my son is now officially the man I can be proud of for his actions. I
love Gary, never denied that, but his actions in the past made me madder then a
hornet. And I have blogged about it many many times, but from the things I have
seen this young and angry and mean young man has grown into a thoughtful and even
minded man. Very proud of him and I hope he always remembers that.
This man now has talks with his wife and jokes with his wife and doesn't put her down for anything, he speaks evenly and explains himself well to her and listens to her and takes into consideration her thoughts and doesn't belittle her. He shows his proudness when he speaks of her and shows that everyday. He is still messy, and doesn't take his plate to the sink but I think he is a man on that part. But he needs to remember to do that out of consideration.
I know that he regrets many things in life and the only way I know that is because he admits it now openly his mistakes and takes the responsibility of those mistakes. Gary would never admit he was wrong in the past. He would always blame it on others, before anything else came out of his mouth. But he doesn't do that anymore, and that is the main reason why I know he has changed. Can someone fall back on his bad ways, yes, but I think with Arielle behind him and standing strong he won't. He called me today and said they were just coming back from lunch because they had things to discuss. Did that ever come out of Gary's mouth before that he would take the time to discuss something, hell no.
I love my new grandson and he is so pretty. He is going to be a heart breaker. And watch out girls he will know all your names......poor Arielle. He is alert and wants to see the world and what is going on around him. As a first time mom Arielle is very very attentive. She may want to watch out and not spoil him. But he is beautiful.
I have to say that Gary has now set the bar up high for his brothers and it has crawled out of the ditch he seems to have made himself. And I am glad, he showed that he can change and for the better. WAY TO GO GARY!
I am just happy that he is happy, he has a beautiful home and a new family that seems to enjoy him to. He can learn a lot from Mr. P and I thank Arielle's family also for showing him what a man should be. Gary had it in him he just needed to learn to bring that about.
Well he still works hard and has many plans for the future and one of them is to do right by Arielle and his son. He has other plans but I am going to keep that under wraps for the moment. I loved to see them and wish this new family so many blessings and wishes that will come true.
Thank you Gary for showing that it can be done and changes can be made.
This man now has talks with his wife and jokes with his wife and doesn't put her down for anything, he speaks evenly and explains himself well to her and listens to her and takes into consideration her thoughts and doesn't belittle her. He shows his proudness when he speaks of her and shows that everyday. He is still messy, and doesn't take his plate to the sink but I think he is a man on that part. But he needs to remember to do that out of consideration.
I know that he regrets many things in life and the only way I know that is because he admits it now openly his mistakes and takes the responsibility of those mistakes. Gary would never admit he was wrong in the past. He would always blame it on others, before anything else came out of his mouth. But he doesn't do that anymore, and that is the main reason why I know he has changed. Can someone fall back on his bad ways, yes, but I think with Arielle behind him and standing strong he won't. He called me today and said they were just coming back from lunch because they had things to discuss. Did that ever come out of Gary's mouth before that he would take the time to discuss something, hell no.
I love my new grandson and he is so pretty. He is going to be a heart breaker. And watch out girls he will know all your names......poor Arielle. He is alert and wants to see the world and what is going on around him. As a first time mom Arielle is very very attentive. She may want to watch out and not spoil him. But he is beautiful.
I have to say that Gary has now set the bar up high for his brothers and it has crawled out of the ditch he seems to have made himself. And I am glad, he showed that he can change and for the better. WAY TO GO GARY!
I am just happy that he is happy, he has a beautiful home and a new family that seems to enjoy him to. He can learn a lot from Mr. P and I thank Arielle's family also for showing him what a man should be. Gary had it in him he just needed to learn to bring that about.
Well he still works hard and has many plans for the future and one of them is to do right by Arielle and his son. He has other plans but I am going to keep that under wraps for the moment. I loved to see them and wish this new family so many blessings and wishes that will come true.
Thank you Gary for showing that it can be done and changes can be made.
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