Dan Birdsong

Something I wrote about my 1st husband -

Dan

  on Wednesday, June 1, 2011 at 4:08pm

 
You know what I hate is that this man gets a pass from being a absent dad.....Gary came to me and asked would Lonnie or I be upset if he had contact with his father (Dan) because Dan is reaching out on facebook to him (this was about a week ago) and even though I acted like the bigger person for my son and to support him, and I do appreciated him asking, and Gary did mention that he considered Lonnie as the person that was always there no matter what, I HATE IT THAT DAN IS BACK.......
 Because its like a pass for Dan who turned his back on his kids by allowing that woman, he claims to be engaged to, take a father -  son relationship and basically destroy it.  And for that jackass to bad mouth me to others that it was all my fault.  What is actually my fault?  Giving you 24 hr access to your kids with no splits in holidays - it basically allows you to have any time with your kids and such but its my fault to others that you basically turned your back - to make him feel better it becomes my fault......ASSHOLE
So he gets a damn pass - And he gives them advice and tells them he is proud of them - like he has been there and has that right - WHO THE HELL RAISED THEM AND WAS THERE FOR THEM THROUGH EVERYTHING IN THEIR LIVES AND HE HAS THE RIGHT TO BE THEIR DAD NOW AND TELL THEM HE IS PROUD OF THEM - YOU GAVE FINANCIAL SUPPORT NO MORAL OR TIME!!!!  BECAUSE YOU NEEDED A LIFE!!!!!!!!!

 And he thinks he can give them fatherly advice now - ASSHOLE
Because LONNIE was there with the FATHERLY advice and I was there always as their MOTHER!!!!!!!!!!!!

OKAY I AM GOING TO LET IT GO FOR NOW BUT HE IS A ASSHOLE FOR WHAT HIS WOMAN AND HE HIMSELF DID TO THEM AND IF ANYONE WANTS TO SEE WHAT THEY DID I WROTE A NOTE EARLIER ON ABOUT THIS JERK......