Tuesday, September 20, 2011
Communication and Sex
Sometimes you have to wonder if men forget they are married
to the female species.....where we need communication or a touch, to let us
know that we are thought about or needed. A nice text in the middle of
the day say, "I love you" or " honey I can't wait to be with you
tonight" or how about "I am horny". Straight out
right.......
We all get busy in life, we aren't young anymore where we think basic sex will keep each other interested and then that is where someone will stray. How about writing down a fantasy you want to try or change the color of your hair or wear a trench coat with nothing underneath it and waiting for your man at the door.......as woman we have fantasies.....but do you know what kind of fantasies your man might have......and does he know what kind of fantasies we carry around with us......THAT'S WHERE COMMUNICATION COMES TO MIND......
As we get older we get comfortable and that's not how to keep a marriage in good health.....its okay that sex can be a release to for a bad day but what makes the soul happy is that we communicate changes we might want in the bedroom or basically in life......A female may want to just have a quiet evening at home to watch a movie but to cuddle with her husband or just to hold hands.....but he can't read your mind.....he may have to be told power down and lets watch this movie and hold each other.....then if he doesn't get the hint or hints because you have tried it several times then you might try hitting him over the head with a frying pan ......but what does the man want.....maybe he wants you to talk dirty to him and watch a porn with him.....are you female enough to do that for him in exchange for what you may want.....THAT'S THE QUESTION??????
We forget sex evolves like life does......and if we forget then everything in our life doesn't go right.....it's not about who is on top that night and do we have enough energy.....its about turning each other on in our sex life and communicating it well to each other....
It doesn't have to be your husbands neither it can be a partner you have....if your straight or gay....if your a christian or catholic.....its not "to much information" its the facts of life....at least its my facts and if you are honest to yourself and the other it could be your fact.....it doesn't matter if this is my opinion and not yours.....because maybe you want to believe everything is just perfect in your life.....but tell you what contact me ten years down the line and your sex life is all about who is on top that night and how you need something in your life and I will print this out for you......
As humans our needs change......like the economy.....or our living situation.....well that includes our sex lives......so take a look at that and reevaluate every once in a while and communicate it with your partner and let me tell you it will help.....and it takes work like everything else in life....its not a overnight thing.....as a ex dancer and being in the trade of fantasies I am so opened minded, you can't get any open minded then me or maybe females that have been in the business.....but what goes on in the bedroom should be open minded don't you think.....communicate and allow your mind to be open in both sides....there are limits, I promise you that if you aren't as open minded or if you are totally open minded, but you can learn how to communicate and make compromises........
So now I think I will end this......and allow all of you that think I am crazy..... to get a good laugh.....but I wonder how many of you are feeling this and just won't acknowledge it.......it's not the sexual revelation I am promoting.....its my truth and my opinion.....
We all get busy in life, we aren't young anymore where we think basic sex will keep each other interested and then that is where someone will stray. How about writing down a fantasy you want to try or change the color of your hair or wear a trench coat with nothing underneath it and waiting for your man at the door.......as woman we have fantasies.....but do you know what kind of fantasies your man might have......and does he know what kind of fantasies we carry around with us......THAT'S WHERE COMMUNICATION COMES TO MIND......
As we get older we get comfortable and that's not how to keep a marriage in good health.....its okay that sex can be a release to for a bad day but what makes the soul happy is that we communicate changes we might want in the bedroom or basically in life......A female may want to just have a quiet evening at home to watch a movie but to cuddle with her husband or just to hold hands.....but he can't read your mind.....he may have to be told power down and lets watch this movie and hold each other.....then if he doesn't get the hint or hints because you have tried it several times then you might try hitting him over the head with a frying pan ......but what does the man want.....maybe he wants you to talk dirty to him and watch a porn with him.....are you female enough to do that for him in exchange for what you may want.....THAT'S THE QUESTION??????
We forget sex evolves like life does......and if we forget then everything in our life doesn't go right.....it's not about who is on top that night and do we have enough energy.....its about turning each other on in our sex life and communicating it well to each other....
It doesn't have to be your husbands neither it can be a partner you have....if your straight or gay....if your a christian or catholic.....its not "to much information" its the facts of life....at least its my facts and if you are honest to yourself and the other it could be your fact.....it doesn't matter if this is my opinion and not yours.....because maybe you want to believe everything is just perfect in your life.....but tell you what contact me ten years down the line and your sex life is all about who is on top that night and how you need something in your life and I will print this out for you......
As humans our needs change......like the economy.....or our living situation.....well that includes our sex lives......so take a look at that and reevaluate every once in a while and communicate it with your partner and let me tell you it will help.....and it takes work like everything else in life....its not a overnight thing.....as a ex dancer and being in the trade of fantasies I am so opened minded, you can't get any open minded then me or maybe females that have been in the business.....but what goes on in the bedroom should be open minded don't you think.....communicate and allow your mind to be open in both sides....there are limits, I promise you that if you aren't as open minded or if you are totally open minded, but you can learn how to communicate and make compromises........
So now I think I will end this......and allow all of you that think I am crazy..... to get a good laugh.....but I wonder how many of you are feeling this and just won't acknowledge it.......it's not the sexual revelation I am promoting.....its my truth and my opinion.....
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