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Saturday, December 10, 2016

Merry Christmas Krystina Lucille Tessinari

Krystina Lucille Tessinari

MERRY CHRISTMAS (a little early) you are a beautiful child and a loved child.  I have seen pictures of you lately and my you are getting tall and what a beautiful face.  And wow Zoe is getting big two.  You look good Krystina.

Of course I want you to know that every Christmas that goes by I will always wish first and foremost for you to be here, I always wish these days to have the entire family here.  I am surrounded by people I love but its never the entire family because living and work and things get in the way.  I will always ask for that in my list of gifts I would love.  One day, I always say that, "one day."  Christmas is never how I dream it to be all so often, I want what I can't have.  Do you think about having your father with you for Christmas.  You know there is a dad out there you are not in communication with. Your daddy, grandmother, grandfather, and uncles miss you here.  Your Christmases are big and happy I do see the pictures but its just a little part missing and as you get older I know a young lady knows that to, and the people surrounding you don't know your thoughts and don't want you to have those thoughts but I know that any young lady that knows there is more out here waiting on her has those thoughts.  I did when I knew there was a dad out there and relatives like my cousins and Aunts and sisters that I didn't have around me.  It's natural to want and to know about and to see.

But this is about you and not me, a young lady with dreams and hopes on her mind.  I love you and never will stop loving you.  I have such great love for this whole family but I am so far away from a lot of the family to show that love and not enough time to do that.  One day I won't be here and I had to ask my BFF Denise if I would be remembered.  She told me, "yes my children will remember you" and I liked that but I also wished my grandchildren would remember me and I want a chance to make memories with ANY grandchild to remember me.  So this is to you Krystina a letter to hopefully remember that a grandmother is out here loving you everyday and every year and know that just seeing pictures of you is my greatest joy in life.  Any picture of my grandchild makes me smile and breaks my heart all at the same time.

Merry Christmas my dear girl

Grandma MyLinh

Thursday, November 10, 2016

T-Mobile

T-Mobile with no contract is trying to get a month of payment from me. I left them three days into my billing cycle when I left them to go with Verizon taking 4 numbers with me. The claim because I took the numbers with me they can bill me another month. How does that happen? I should be charged for three days not a month and they were sending me bills of 150.00 and now its jumped to 189.00. What do they think I am stupid. Plus their un-loyalty had me leaving anyway. What they should have done is called concerned of losing a customer of 10 years or more instead of being bullies. So T-Mobile or collection agency please continue calling my phone because like I stated I do record my calls also.......

Consumers Can Receive Up To $1,500 For Each Unwanted Cell Call

  •  Apr 3, 2014
  •  Debt Harassment
Are you hounded by debt collection calls?  The next time you receive a call from a debt collector, rather than ignoring it, simply pick up the phone and tell them to stop calling.
By telling companies such as banks and debt collectors that they do not have permission to call, you may be eligible to receive up to $1,500 per call if they continue to harass you.
By telling companies such as banks and debt collectors that they do not have permission to call, you may be eligible to receive up to $1,500 per call if they continue to harass you.
A recent lawsuit filed against State Farm shows that victims of unwanted debt collection calls may be eligible to receive sizable payments, although they owed money to the company that is making the pestering calls. In the case of Osorio v. State Farm, a federal court ruled that State Farm broke the law when it continued to make debt collection calls after the plaintiff specifically asked the company to stop calling. The lawsuit involved a South Florida woman who provided State Farm with her housemate’s number as an emergency contact. When the woman fell behind on her payments, the company harassed her and her housemate with hundreds of unwanted debt collection calls.
Under the Telephone Consumer Protection Act, a federal law designed to protect consumers from unwanted calls and text messages, it is illegal for any company, including a debt collection agency, to use automated systems, artificial callers, and prerecorded messages to call or text you unless you have given the company express permission to do so. You can revoke your authorization to receive calls at any time, and the company must, by law, stop calling.
If you have received unwanted calls to your cell phone, you may be eligible to collect up to $1,500 per unwanted call. Complete our free case evaluation form to find out how the consumer protection attorneys at Morgan & Morgan can help enforce your legal rights.
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Sunday, October 2, 2016

Obituary for Leonard N. Carter

Carter, Leonard

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  • Carter, Leonard

Leonard "June" Nathaniel Carter Jr. Mr. Leonard "June" Nathaniel Carter Jr., 61, went home early Tuesday morning, August 19, 2014, around 1 a.m. at Greystone Health Care Center after a long battle with MS. Mr. Carter was born on December 16, 1952, in Bristol, Virginia. The son of Betty Sensabaugh Carter and the late Leonard N. Carter Sr. Along with his father, June, was preceded in death by his younger brother, Ricky Carter; maternal grandparents, Bruce and Henrietta Sensabaugh; and paternal grandparents, Emory and Nannie Carter. June worked for many years as an engineer in Grand Rapids, MI. , Los Angeles, California, and his last employer was in Lauderdale By The Sea, Fla. with REP Corporation. June was a member of Lee Street Baptist Church Survivors include one son, Mr. Leonard "Lenny" and Crystal; his mother, Betty Sensabaugh Carter; sister, Bonnie Carter Norris; brother, Michael Douglas Carter and Kathy; two grandsons, Nathaniel IV and Trenton; three nieces, Nikki Brown, Ashley Shu, and Dominique Carter; one nephew, Jason Norris; and a host of family and friends. A special THANKS to staff at Greystone Health Care and Bristol Regional Medical Center for their care of Leonard. At the request of the Mr. Leonard N. Carter Jr., his remains will be cremated and there will not be any services. Condolences and Expressions of sympathy can be sent to raclarkfuneralservice@yahoo.com Professional services and care of Mr. Leonard "June" Nathaniel Carter, Jr. and family are entrusted to R.A. Clark Funeral Service Inc. (423) 764-8584

Leonard N. Carter

Eulogy for Leonard N. Carter Jr.                                                 October 2, 2016
  Our son called me on 10/1/2016 at 8:46pm to tell me his wife helped him find you to only learn you had passed two years ago.  First of all, I didn’t know he was looking for you, and second I felt bad for him because obviously he wanted to find you possibly to have his own questions answered.  I have been searching for his half-brother for a while to no avail.  But now we have leads because the names in your own obituary gave us those leads.  Now the common names were going to be hard to find without knowing their faces, but the one I could find possibly would be your niece.  And the spelling was wrong and the surname wasn’t there but I found her and then all the puzzles of the missing people came about. 
  Leonard I was young and I loved you as much as a young woman could love someone but you were in love with another.  I didn’t know the way around love and strong love and I so tried to have you love me.  But I know that I took my heart and handed it to you and it never stuck and your heart wasn’t meant for me.  I am good, I know the last time we spoke you asked me that and I want you to know I am good.  I love Lonnie and he is so good to me.  We had closure that last conversation, you learned you had MS and answered my questions about why you never wanted to meet Gary and allow him to meet you.  I remember that one day you did drive up to the Denny’s but didn’t get out of the car and said hello to Gary gave him an excuse why you wouldn’t get out of the car and drove away.  I remember you were a mystery to me and when I became pregnant you ignored me and then Gary was born and he looked like you.  I remember you didn’t want to help me with Gary’s medicine telling me he wasn’t yours and I remember being so hurt and then mad that now I was just going to prove you wrong.  Got the DNA and got the child support and you paid it faithfully. 
  I don’t know Leonard if you shared Gary’s existence to any family members but our son wants to know someone just to find out more about your side of the family.  I can’t blame him it’s a natural progress to know from whom are you a part of, how did I get this trait, or why am I like this.  He looks like your son, Leonard Carter "Lenny" and his Uncle Michael.  I hope your family wants to know him and doesn’t pretend he doesn’t exist, like your mom did to me that one and only phone call I had with her.  They looked like god fearing family and I don’t pretend to know about god and what he would want but I think they may reach out and at least acknowledge him.  Please cheer him on from where you are at.  Please watch out for him on this journey he is going on.  I don’t know if you thought about him in any way over the years, this beautiful child that was brought into the world.  But I now know Gary thought of you, he acted tough and said, oh well, but I guess curiosity has taken root if he went on his own search.  He has a wonderful step father in Lonnie and Dan wasn’t too bad but he abandoned them for a woman, Gary called to make sure Lonnie knew this search wasn’t a reflection on him.  Gary doesn’t call home much he has his own family to tend to but I miss him a lot.  He works hard and has accomplished so much. 
  I thought of you a lot over the years but I knew we would not meet again after that last conversation.  You had a fight on your hands with MS and I had a life to lead and my own children to raise.  I had the closure so this little good bye letter isn’t mean or wanting to get my hurt out.  I loved you and will always love you and I hope that you are at peace.  Thank you for giving me Gary Matthew Tessinari.   


Love MyLinh  

Thursday, September 22, 2016

Krystina Lucille Tessinari

Krystina

Well my lovely granddaughter its one of those nights that I am thinking about the grand kids in my life.  I am thinking about the presidential race this year....and its just one of those nights you wonder why you are told you can not have opinions or speak someone's name or this and that.  Isn't it funny that we grow up and we are aloud to have opinions yet if someone doesn't like your opinion or your views you get cut out of people's lives like that is suppose to scare you back in line.  This world was made up of opinions and protests and this and that.  Yet you aren't allowed to voice your opinion because that starts all kind of drama.  So annoying, and I wonder what kind of opinions you are going to have about your life.  Are you going to take other opinions to heart and not listen to the other side to form your own opinion or are you going to grow up and say it like it is.  

I was timid way back when and never spoke my opinion and I think that is why my own mother got her way beating me and keeping me scared.  But I think I have to say that I owe me having a strong backbone with opinions on Lonnie, your grandfather, which he may regret more these days then anything else.  But he made me feel like I can have opinions and voice them and he would always stand by me no matter what.  Plus I am to old now to really give a damn.  I have a close net of friends that have their own opinions and we don't agree all the time but they let me say what I want and they say what they want.  Do we have strong opinions in this family.....lol...I have to say HELL YES.

I have four grandchildren now to write little notes to and such but you will probably get more notes then anyone of them, not because your loved more but because you are always on my mind because of the situation we are in with you.  I have dreams of our first meeting.....and I know the doors that will be open to reach out to you when you are 18.  I have to be respectful of your moms choices right now but let me say a lot more doors open up when you are of age.  I wonder will you find that you will regret missing out on this side of the family.  Even if its all crazy and full of drama.  Probably, you may have drama in your own family, no family is PERFECT.  

Presidential race....told you this was on my mind also....lol.  We have Donald Trump and Hilary Clinton.  I am so in the middle - one speaks his mind doesn't give a damn what comes out of his mouth but if truth be told he does say what is on peoples minds even if they don't admit it in fear of being called bigots or such.  Then you have Hilary who is a strong woman with good plans and outlines those plans but is she politically correct all the time.  Why can't she be more open and more honest and let the stuff come out of her mouth like she wants to.  Trump needs to lay out the plans on how we are going to do this and when we are going to do this and that.  And doesn't it depend on the Senate and the House.  They don't vote your way it won't happen.  Gosh I read and read on these two and I get a headache....but I am so on the fence.  I think this is important and will set thepace for the next four years in America and I am on the fence.  Do you want to hear this, probably not but you know its one of those things that is on my mind.

Well dear girl you are probably bored from this entry but I thought I would write you and say hello - so this is me saying "hello".  You be good okay and I love you and remember there is a whole lot of people out here and such watching out for you.  One day Krystina we will meet and I can not wait.  I hope that you are well and your family and stay a dreamer.....

Love always
Grandma

  

Payton Dallas Gallaway

Hi Payton Gallaway

This is Grandma MyLinh and I had to borrow Grandpa Lonnie's FB to let you know that I am going to write you little letters in my blog and paste the last discussion with your mom on my blog that one day when you do go on line for yourself you will see that you were always on our minds since your mom deleted and blocked your grandfather and myself for having opinions. I am so sorry you are caught up in the middle of grown people that obviously has shown their true colors and are deleting family like we aren't here. It was done to your father by his mother and he has demons to work with and didn't have support of a good man his own daddy - your grandfather to love and support him. But one day we will catch up and if you ever need anything or want a family behind you hopefully its not to late as it was for your own father. Your mom is a good woman but she is making a choice and its her choice but you will google one day and you will come across your name - and that is how you will know who we are. The good the bad and the ugly......LOVE you Payton.....see you one day......







I agree to a divorce....I agree that u should have custody....what I DONT agree to is that u cut out a father to his children....if that father is TRYING and proves he can straighten out and stay straight....then they WILL ALWAYS deserve to be in that child's life.....I hate woman that think they can be sneaky and think that is OKAY because its not....there should be some kind of communication for the childs sake....children always need their parent and will go looking for them....

Jessica GallawayJessica Gallaway Agreed! Some women don't realize how lucky they are to have a child with someone who actually wants to be there for the child and do right by them... I would give anything for that!
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MyLinh McDonald Some people have issues they need to work at to be there for their child and u can wish all u want and it will happen one day...but maybe a woman needs to look at herself also.....it takes two to work hard and not lay it at the feet of one person....so maybe u need to make sure stones aren't thrown at one side completely.....father may have demons but is the other half to blame also by not working themselves
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Jessica Gallaway Also very true. I definitely am not a perfect parent for sure but she will always have me here and that's something I will always do. That's all any good parent can do is try their best
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MyLinh McDonald And doing ur best is working hard ... Stand on ur own two feet....don't rely on others to fix it for u....take ur knocks get back up and keep going....I never before Lonnie McDonald relied on anyone but myself working hard at two jobs if I had to.....h...See More
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Jessica Gallaway Oh I guess I haven't updated the whole situation. He knows and has been given papers but instead left the state. I wanted to do equal and standard visitation but since he left oklahoma and won't comply they say all I can do is publication. I wish I could do it the right way but I tried to as much as I legally could
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Lonnie McDonald You have him on fb so let him know.
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Jessica Gallaway I already emailed him the petition along with visitation schedule. I've also talked by phone. He's angry about the divorce so im having to pretty much do what I can on my end
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MyLinh McDonald Then good u did ur BEST to communicate it to him...but if he needs to fix all his demons he MUST take the time to do so also.....so if that means not seeing Payton till he knows he is good then I would accept that.....and pray its sooner then later.......See More
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Jessica Gallaway Yes! That's exactly how I feel! I only hope and will be happy for the day he can be in her life and be well on his own. I really do. I only want payton to be happy. She deserves it and more
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Lonnie McDonald I only hope that you are going to give him open communication with her.
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Jessica Gallaway I was. He's not around anymore hopefully he will decide to come back into her life soon when he is able and has worked through his problems
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MyLinh McDonald

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Lonnie McDonald Don't pull what his mother did with him and I because it will give the other parent pains and hurt feelings to you.
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Jessica Gallaway I know better than that. I would never keep payton from him. I actually allowed him to see her whenever he wanted up until he left the state. Even offered equal visitation when he left the state but he only wants to do some holidays. Which that's fine if that is what he wants. I honestly wish he wanted more than that but I guess he's going to stay in Indiana for good
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Lonnie McDonald He has a job and a place to live.
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MyLinh McDonald And if that is good for him...then wish him luck and happiness....then do u...but tell him ur plans be open....run the ad AFTER u tell him if u must...don't do it all without saying something....
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Jessica Gallaway I've told him face to face... by phone and email and last known address... he knows everything
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Jessica Gallaway I can't even run the ad for another few weeks
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Jessica Gallaway Lonnie he moved in with a stranger from the Internet. He doesn't have his own place
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MyLinh McDonald
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Jessica Gallaway I apologize if my posts have been unclear. I try not to tell more than just my side for the simple fact he isn't here to defend himself and I don't want to put it all out there but if you ever wanna know what is going on then you can message me at any time.
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MyLinh McDonald No...if ur going to put anything out there it should be the good the bad and everything.....then u aren't hiding anything....its an opinion...its how u feel....that way someone doesn't think ur hiding things.....they will defend themselves if they want.....but this was a good debate....REALLY GOOD ....so good job....now do u girl
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Jessica Gallaway Oh he's not on my fb. Not debating or hiding anything at all. Almost everyone on my fb knows how he is and what is most likely the reason for what I'm posting.
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MyLinh McDonald Well when u go back and forth that's a debate or a point of view....I don't care if a person lies neither....but opinions are always different seen differently by each person....so just the respect that I can say something and u can say something is a debate and that's good...so take the damn compliment and good night. 
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MyLinh McDonald And I am NOT CALLING U A LIAR...so don't respond to that line OKAY....LOVE YA...
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Jessica Gallaway Lol oh ok I thought you meant we were at a disagreance. I was just trying to clarify some things on the situation
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MyLinh McDonald And u did good...up against me and my opinions u held ur own....don't think I take everything that is said from the other side to heart....or believe its all true....but I have opinions and I do voice them...and u are good....so go to sleep and get some rest....STOP REPLYING....lol😆
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