Dear Son,
I am glad that we have opened some kind of dialog with each other. I am still wondering if what you say is true. But it does make me happy that we have started. I am glad you can admit you were a HORRIBLE boyfriend. I didn't ever want you to think it's okay to treat the women in your life with verbal abuse, that you can rain down on them. It wasn't okay. And what you admitted to me that is my own faults I accept whole heart and soul. Your right I do go out of my way to help people with being screwed so many times you would think I have learned my lesson by now. But family can be the hardest on you and we are the hardest on each other aren't we.
I love you and I will have to accept Arielle as a daughter-in-law not because of what you said to me but because why deny a girl I liked to. Except the only betrayal from her was talking to me and taking my confidence and not showing me the respect I do honestly deserve from her also. I still have harbor the feelings of not being able to have the news you were married. But I am glad she said you have changed and are having fun in your marriage and its not all about the meanness no more. I have to take her word on that, whole hardheartedly also.
It's great that you have plans and are working through it. I want you to always finish things and don't make it a issue and give up. I didn't raise quitters that's for sure.
Well I wanted to document this some that we are opening the lines of communication and we will work through all our many problems. I will see you in June as my vacation is being planned around you and your family. I love you didn't care for your actions, but I love you. Always become a better person and DON'T SLIDE BACK to the horrible person you can be, because its not nice Gary. And you can be nice to the ones you love. It's allowed.
Love your
Mom
