Away from my grand-daughter

Friday, July 22, 2011

Life so far away from my granddaughter

Recently I got some pictures of My granddaughter and I didn't care how I got them or who I used to get them.  And basically I still don't care....I may not talk to her but it doesn't mean I don't want to see her or to see the amazing life her mom is giving her.  Kayti is not a bad mom, Gary is not a bad dad, what is going to anger that little girl when she grows up and finds out why her family was split, because her dad couldn't just make peace and allow others to enjoy his daughter.  Because with Gary being a jerk, she has no chance of coming for a visit, because Kayti is afraid to send her to us because Gary may do something crazy, and even if I take the responsibility of her visit and getting her back, why would Kayti trust me.  So take this set of grandparents out of the equation.  And then that is where it all goes wrong.

Krystina has a amazing life and that is what I see in the pictures and I knew she would....and Kayti found a young man I hope she is happy with.  But the last text she sent to my son said something like, "Krystina calls someone else "Dad" now.  And that is not right.  But what my son did to her was wrong too.  And he did some mean things.  But thats what this is all about.  A little girl who doesn't get a phone call even because of her dad.  Plus to call and want to see Krystina and her mom not trusting me to see her because of my son.  It all boils down to waiting for Krystina to want to see her dad. 

I just hope Krystina forgives all the way around....because only time can te

Krystina Lucille Tessinari and Katrina Bostnar

Monday, October 3, 2011

Krystina Lucille Tessinari and Katrina Bostnar

Well Krystina I had to get your father out of my life and I hate to say this but I do feel very very good about that.....and it's weird on how I do feel better about the decision.....what I wonder is if this is how your mom felt to making her decision to cut your father off from you....I chose to take myself out of the picture, I have to admit now to myself and you, because of your fathers actions toward your mother.  He isn't a nice person.  He just doesn't have it in him to treat woman with kindness and consideration.....he is derogatory and condescending and hypocritical and just plain mean.  I will now say out loud he is a "mental abuser."  He needs help Krystina, and until he admits to having a problem he can't change.


But you are having a good life with your mom.  And I am happy for that.  I always thought that I could put some of the blame with her for Gary's reactions toward woman but I think the only blame, is when I decided to come out of the picture why didn't she at least let me see pictures of you on her facebook.  I only wanted not to be in the middle of Gary's crap toward her and the crap she gave back to him (listen she should stick up for herself) but to be totally freezes me out not to even see pictures she posts on her wall isn't fair......but I recently got to see some pictures and it was great.....you are having a wonderful life and I can't wait to see how it all turns out for you

Krystina Tessinari

Thursday, October 13, 2011
 

Krystina Lucille Tessinari

dearest krystina lucille tessinari

I did steal some pics of you recently and I have a question to ask you.....are you as happy as you look.....you are beautiful and your mom looks happy too....

that makes me feel good.....i have to say that I think I made a mistake when I gave up the phone calls....I have to remember your daddy can be cruel to the people he is suppose to love the most.....I think I have to change the way I think and have more sympathy for your mom because she has to fight back somehow....and admire her more for having the guts to leave the state and your daddy behind.....i am sure you will be back and I wish I could see more of your pictures but your mom cut it off....but I am sure your father had something to do with that.....but its good that I got the pictures I got....I always said your mom would raise you well....and I hope that you are happy.....I love you little girl and I can't wait to meet you again one day.....it will be the best day of my life.....remember you were named by me and the name fit....with that smile you look like my sister and grandmother all rolled up in one.....i honored the right name for you.....

stay sweet and stay happy and safe.....I will be waiting for you.....hopefully in a few years your mom will contact me and ask to come for a visit....because I would move heaven and earth to get a visit.....stay safe and love to your family that surrounds you.

Love Your Grandmother